Promiscuity and Perversion
The psychological and emotional pains which drive promiscuity and perversion are
our earliest and deepest traumas.
Our sexuality, whether healthy and balanced or promiscuous and perverted, is
formed in the womb, during birth, and the first hours, days and months of our lives.
We all begin as needy, loving, beautifully open and pure spirits. Our hearts and
minds are pristine manifestations of creation and evolution, ready to be engraved
with the early experiences of our lives.
Promiscuity and
perversion are forms of
"acting out" symbolically
our psychological and
emotional issues.
Promiscuity and
perversion are
sexualized defenses to
keep pain repressed.
Of all of our methods of "acting out" our psychological and
emotional imbalances, of all of the addictions that we
humans wrestle with, promiscuity and perversion are the
most exciting, the most prevalent, and the most difficult to
heal.
Promiscuity and Perversion
When our first experiences are: Gentle and affectionate
When we connect: Eye to eye
And: Heart to heart
When the first loves of our lives: Our parents
Give and receive Love: Naturally
And: Generously
It shows us that they deeply: Love us
Then sexually as adults: Gentle and affectionate,
eye to eye,
heart to heart,
we naturally and
generously love others.
But the real "imprint" of a person's sexual life occurs during the first few hours, days,
weeks, months, (in order of impact), as the new baby literally engraves its brain
according to the sexual-psycho-emotional dynamic of the mother and father and their
dynamic with each other, with the child in the middle.
The psychological and emotional model of the parents will be engraved into the baby
as if it represents reality (in a local sense it does to the baby).
Sexual trauma begins in the womb hormonally when an unbalanced or suffering
mother gestates her child, and then is greatly exacerbated by traumatic hospital births,
infant separation after birth, and for males, circumcision.
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Once aware of the roots of promiscuity and perversion, the challenge now is to correct the
faulty engraving of the mind and heart, to redraw the map, to learn anew the gentle and
elevating Love that was meant to be ours.
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Parents that deeply respect, honor, value and love each other and generously share
this with their baby without competing with each other help the baby to grow to be a
person without trauma, and people without psychological and emotional trauma do
not behave perversely or promiscuously.
Parents that behave in a natural, supportive and relaxed way about urination, feces,
nudity, genitalia, and the show of physical affection will help the baby to grow to be
a person without the trauma that would later surface as promiscuity and perversion.
Parents that are able to meet their baby's needs without expecting the baby to
meet or fulfill the parents own set of unmet needs will help the baby to grow to be
a person without the trauma that would later surface as promiscuity and
perversion.
The only way is to feel and to grieve no
differently than the child who originally
suffered. Without catharsis no re-
engraving or curing can occur.
The role of Your Personal Muse with
promiscuity and perversion is, perhaps
for the first time in your life, to be
appreciated and approved of, just as you
are, without judgement by another human
being. The role of Your Personal Muse is
to be a generous, supportive container
for your young child that still longs for
gentleness and affection.
Your heart knows what it needs but is only afraid. Your new
strength with Your Personal Muse comes not in acting out the
pain, but in feeling what has been hidden for so long. And with
Your Personal Muse you will not feel alone.
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