We all long to have our needs fulfilled and sating these thirsts
drives us ever onwards.
What is happening?
We all have internal cups of Love and each cup is a need that is designed to be fulfilled.
It is never about things or what we can do out there. It is inside us.
If in our early years these cups did not fill up, then
there is nothing we can do in the present to fill
them. The very experience of "never enough" and
"more" are symptoms of our issues, and no issue
was ever resolved by treating the symptom.
Why is nothing ever enough?
Obsessive and Compulsive Behavior
We must pay attention to the cups of Love themselves and how they relate to our
present reality. We don't do this with thought or mental realization, for it is our mind
that we have been following all along. Only our hearts can fill these cups, and
grieving for our unmet needs turns the tap of Love back on.
Eventually, our little cups of Love
repair and integrate and fill. When
this happens, even small quantities
of what used to be overindulgence
make us glow with satisfaction.
Symbolic acting out in the present for need
fulfillment can actually hide us and defend us
from the very thing we’re searching for, and so it
can be complex indeed to follow our hearts when
the heart needs have been long repressed.
No one should harm or judge or deprive a child. Your
Personal Muse is your ally and champion for the
healing that you deserve.
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But for some reason we just never feel fulfilled.
And so we repeat and try, and repeat and try yet again. If it's
not this it must be that. If it's not that maybe just more of it.
Most often the way we try and fulfill our needs isn't even
healthy or helping us or even related to the need.
More. More. More.
Again and Again and Again.
To be free to be who we are. To be nourished with touch and caring
and affection. To be loved without conditions or expectations.
To be seen. To be valued. To be approved of. To matter.
